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The Men We Meet
~ 15 Key Lessons Learned in Love

By Lisa Schoenthal

“I was born knowing the simple truth that people matter—which naturally means I matter—but somewhere along the way, I lost this knowledge and with it myself. Thanks to my misadventures with men, I rediscovered the refreshing freedom of being me.”  

Part autobiography and part inspirational self-help book, The Men We Meet, is a deeply personal account of the enlightenment and growth I have achieved through my relationships with the men in my life—family, friends, partners, and lovers.

Written with the intimacy and honesty of a personal journal, I recount 15 life lessons learned from the men who have offended and amused, defeated and delighted, disappointed and empowered me.

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By sharing my experiences and lessons I hope to inspire others—particularly women—to reflect on their own relationships, take personal responsibility for their actions and decisions, and become empowered to create a life filled with love and positive relationships.

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Recall your own stories as you read mine and discover how you can reach for your own truth, gratitude and love.​ 

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~Coming soon~

The Men We Meet “15 Key Lessons Learned in Love” – 10th Anniversary Edition + Companion Journal & Workbook 

This isn’t just a book update—it’s the aftermath, the reckoning, and the rising.

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The 10th Anniversary Edition of The Men We Meet is pulling back the curtain on what really happened after the first release—because turns out, writing your truth doesn’t just set you free... it rattles a few cages. Spoiler alert: not everyone clapped.

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We’re talking love, lies, lessons—and yes, The Sailor is back... but this time, his tall tales get the spotlight they deserve. And just when you thought it couldn’t get more cinematic, The Pilot finally lands—with a storyline that might just steal the show.

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But this time, it’s not just about them. It’s about you.

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Alongside the updated book, you’ll get the Companion Journal & Workbook—a no-fluff, soul-sparking guide to help you dive into your own love stories, patterns, growth, and truth. Expect bold prompts, real talk, affirmations, and aha moments that might just change your life (or at least your dating app settings).

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It’s fun. It’s fierce. It’s full of heart.


And it’s coming in hot.

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“Ready for a real dose of transformative conversations? Grab a cuppa & join me at Sip Tea with Me for honest stories, life hacks, and a dash of wisdom to fuel your passion and purpose, as we find our way to making a massive impact in the world, together!"

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The Men We Meet 

"15 Key Lessons Learned in Love"

"Every relationship leaves a mark—some heal, some hurt, but all teach us who we are. Discover 15 transformative lessons in love, connection, and self-discovery in The Men We Meet—your journey to authenticity starts here."

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