"It takes some deep inner knowing of ourselves to trust in our own choices."
Trust. It’s the foundation of every meaningful relationship, every bold decision, and every moment of surrender to the unknown. And yet, for so many of us, trust can feel like an impossible leap—a blindfolded step into the abyss, with no guarantee of a soft landing.
But here’s the truth: Learning to trust isn’t about guarantees. It’s about shifting your perspective from needing certainty to embracing possibility. It’s about understanding that trust isn’t something you wait to feel—it’s something you practice every day.
Trusting Yourself: The Ultimate FoundationTrust starts within. If you can’t trust yourself—your intuition, your instincts, your decisions—it’s tough to trust anything or anyone else. So how do you build that trust?
Listen to Your Gut – Your intuition is like a muscle. The more you listen to it, the stronger it becomes. Notice when something feels right or off, and honor that.
Keep Promises to Yourself – Trust grows when you show yourself that you’re reliable. If you say you’ll do something—whether it’s waking up earlier, prioritizing self-care, or going after a dream—follow through.
Forgive Yourself – You’re human. You’ll make mistakes. Trusting yourself doesn’t mean getting everything right; it means believing you can handle whatever comes next, no matter what.
Trusting Others: The Art of Opening UpOnce you start trusting yourself, trusting others becomes a little easier. But let’s be real—people can be unpredictable. So, how do you trust without setting yourself up for disappointment?
Look at Actions, Not Just Words – Trust isn’t built on what people say they’ll do; it’s built on what they actually do consistently over time.
Be Vulnerable (Even When It’s Scary) – Trust requires opening up, even when there’s a risk. True connection only happens when we let people see the real us.
Set Healthy Boundaries – Trust doesn’t mean blindly handing over your heart and expecting others to protect it. It means knowing your limits, expressing them clearly, and walking away when necessary.
Trusting Life: Surrendering to the FlowThis might be the hardest one of all. Trusting life means letting go of control, embracing uncertainty, and believing that things are unfolding exactly as they should—even when they don’t look like it.
Stay Present – Trusting life means accepting the moment you’re in instead of clinging to the past or fearing the future.
Recognize the Signs – Life often gives us gentle nudges (or, let’s be honest, full-on shoves) in the right direction. Pay attention to synchronicities, gut feelings, and unexpected opportunities.
Lean Into Faith, Not Fear – Fear asks, What if everything goes wrong? Trust asks, What if everything is working out perfectly? Shift your focus to the latter, and watch how life meets you there.
The Magic That Happens When You Trust
When you start practicing trust, everything changes. Your relationships deepen, your dreams feel more attainable, and life flows with a kind of ease you never knew existed. Trust doesn’t eliminate challenges, but it gives you the confidence to face them head-on, knowing that no matter what happens, you’ll be okay.
So today, ask yourself: Where in my life do I need to let go and trust more? Maybe it’s trusting yourself to take that leap. Maybe it’s trusting someone to show up for you. Maybe it’s trusting that life has your back, even when you can’t see the full picture.
Whatever it is, start small. One step at a time. Because trust isn’t a destination—it’s a daily practice. And the more you lean in, the more life meets you with open arms.
Affirmations for Building Trust
I trust myself to make the right decisions for my highest good.
I am safe to trust and open my heart to those who honor me.
Life is always guiding me toward my greatest potential.
I release control and embrace the flow of life.
I am worthy of trusting relationships that uplift and support me.
Every experience is an opportunity to deepen my trust in myself and the universe.
I allow trust to lead me to infinite possibilities.
I surrender my fears and step forward with confidence and faith.